A Working Single Mom

Early on before Lillian was born, her dad and I decided that I would stay at home with Lillian as long as finances allowed me to do so.  At the time I had no idea I would have to go back to work when my little one was four months old. Prayers were heard and I was asked by my church to take a position at the on site childcare facility. Lillian received half price tuition and I was able to help my family financially. After discussing finances and doing some budget cuts I decided it was best for me to return home and concentrate on my own family needs instead of the needs of other peoples children.

I have entered the workforce once again after receiving my degree.  I absolutely LOVE my job with The Center for Family Development.  My number one goal with families is to establish a nurturing bond between a mother and her child.  I completed my internship with this agency while in school and really had no interest in working for them after school was over. I was given a part time position over the summer and when the summer was over I was given a full time job offer to think about. I took some time and thought about the offer and what it would mean for my child and myself and realized The Center would be a perfect spot for to start out at in my career. It is not the highest paying job, but it has many perks.  I have been thankful to be able to bring my daughter to work with me on occasion and be able to flex my time around to spend more time at home with her.

At times I wonder what it would be like to work at one of the higher paying agencies, but I feel that I would not have as much time to strengthen my relationship with my child, which is what parenthood should be.

Hebrews 13:5 Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because, God has said, "Never will I leave you;never will I forsake you."

What I find difficult is coming home and trying to get dinner on the table and cleaned up with no help. Lillian is getting to the point where she wants to help set the table and try to help wash dishes(which is actually very good at).  I feel like I never have time to just relax, because I am doing all the SAHM duties PLUS working 40 hours a week.  I should be used to it, because I do not recall ever having help before with the deployments and going to school.   Maybe by the time Lillian goes to Kindergarten we will have a routine set and it becomes easier!  One would hope!